Mills-Bunje Therapy

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Finding Ways to Connect with Yourself and Others

Kelsey Mills-Bunje, LMFT, CST

My pronouns: She/Her/Hers

Licensed Marriage Family Therapist

LMFT CA #125153 & NV #4385-R

AASECT Certified Sex Therapist

Gottman Trained for Couples and Communication

Coach Nationwide and Internationally

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Therapy:
Helps you process past trauma, explore challenges, and build healthier, more meaningful connections.

Coaching:
Helps you set goals, take action, and make forward-focused, meaningful changes in your life.

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Specialties

  • Sex Therapy

  • Relationship Issues - Couples, Blended Families, Peer Relationships

  • Trauma & PTSD

  • Mental Health Support - Mood disorders such as Depression, Anxiety, ADHD, Bipolar Disorder, Schizophrenia, for Individuals, Couples, or Families

  • Coaching Services- Nationwide / International (Different then Therapy- see below)

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Communities I work with

  • Single, Dating, Co-habitating, Married, Divorced

  • Blended Families

  • Parenting, Co-Parenting

  • Foster Care System/ Community

  • Monogamy, Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, polyamorous, or other relationship styles

  • Body Positivity

  • HIV / AIDS

  • Queer Community

  • Gay Community

  • Intersex Community

  • Lesbian Community

  • Bisexual Community

  • Non-Binary Community

  • Transgender Community

  • Psychedelic Community

  • Energy Healing Community

  • Racial Justice Allied

  • Sex Workers

  • Surrogate Partners (sometimes called sex surrogates)

  • Sex-Positive

  • Kink and BDSM Community

Issues People Come to Therapy for

  • Relationship Issues/ Pre-Marital/ Marital Issues

  • Sexual Issues

  • Body Image Issues

  • Substance Use Issues

  • Communication problems

  • PTSD/ Trauma

  • Healing Inner Child Work

  • Severe Mental Health Issues within an Individual, Couple Dynamic or Family Systems

  • Stress Management

  • Emotional Disturbance

  • To Learn Coping Skills

  • Low Self Esteem

  • Behavioral Issues

  • ADHD Tools

  • Mindfulness Tools

  • Family Conflict

  • Parenting

  • Parents of LGBTQ Kids

  • Cultural Issues

  • Gender Expression

  • Navigating Non-Monogamy Relationships

  • Support/ Preparations in Psychedelic Journeys

  • Assessment for Diagnoses

  • What issues would you like to talk about?

COACHING

  • Career & Professional Growth

  • Life Transitions

  • Relationships & Communication

  • Intimacy

  • Confidence & Mindset

  • Personal Growth & Accountability

  • Work-Life Balance & Well-Being

  • Practical support for focus, organization, and follow-through

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Types of Therapy I Provide 

  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

  • EMDR

  • Alternative Families Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (AF-CBT)

  • Gottman Method (Couples Therapy)

  • Culturally Sensitive

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)

  • Attachment Therapy

  • Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)

  • Structured Interview for Psychosis-Risk Syndromes (SIPS)

  • Expressive Arts/ Art Therapy

  • Somatic Therapy

  • Mindfulness

  • Guided Meditations

  • Family Systems

  • Gestalt

  • Person-Centered

  • Solution Focused (SFBT)

  • Strength-Based

  • Trauma Focused

  • Sex Therapy

  • Triadic Model with Surrogate Partner and Client

  • Mental Health Assessments (ADHD, Depression, Anxiety, Bipolar, PTSD, etc)

  • Stackable, Instructionally,-Embedded, Portable Science (SIPS) Assessment (for first episode psychosis)

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Sessions and Fees

🌟Accepting New Clients🌟

Regular Therapy Sessions Tuesdays, Wednesdays, Thursdays, 8:00 AM–8:00 PM

  • Individual Therapy (50 min): $235

  • Couples Therapy (50 min): $295

  • Family Therapy (50 min): $360

Intensive Therapy Sessions (3 hours) – Saturdays, Sundays, Mondays, Thursdays, Fridays (various times)

  • Individual Intensive Therapy: $1,125

  • Couple Intensive Therapy or Sex Therapy: $1,365

Coaching Services Tuesdays, Wednesdays, Thursdays, 8:00 AM–8:00 PM

  • Individual Coaching (50 min): $235

  • Couples Coaching (50 min): $295

Sliding Scale for Therapy Sessions or Coaching Services:
Limited sliding scale spots are available—just ask.

Frequently Asked: What is Sex Therapy?

Sex Therapy addresses a wide range of sexual and intimacy concerns, including:

Sexual Function & Desire

  • Painful sex, arousal, or desire issues

  • Low sexual desire or libido changes

  • Orgasm or ejaculation difficulties & erectile dysfunction

  • Vaginismus, dyspareunia, pelvic floor tension

  • Intimacy after genital surgery

  • Performance anxiety – fear or stress about sexual performance

Life Stage & Hormonal Changes

  • Menopause & perimenopause

  • Postpartum sexual changes – desire, arousal, or body image after childbirth

  • Aging and sexual health – changes across the lifespan beyond menopause

Identity & Relationships

  • Exploring sexual identity and developing intimacy

  • Infidelity and betrayal

  • Non-monogamy or polyamorous relationships – navigating intimacy and boundaries

  • Relationship communication around sex – negotiating needs, boundaries, and consent

Other Areas of Focus

  • Kink and BDSM (consensual power dynamics)

  • Concerns about sexual addiction or pornography use

  • Sexual trauma – including rape, child abuse, intimate partner sexual violence, or non-consensual contact

  • Fertility, conception, and sexual intimacy – navigating stress or challenges related to conception

  • Socio-cultural factors – how culture affects sexual values, behaviors, and partner choices

  • Religious or cultural influences – exploring how beliefs and values impact sexual feelings, intimacy, and relationships

This list represents some of the issues addressed in therapy—if your concern isn’t listed here, it’s still welcome in sessions or during a consultation call. Therapy sessions can be individual or with your partner, providing a safe, confidential space to explore any concerns you may have.

 Contact me to set up a free 15 min phone consultation. 

Frequently Asked: What’s the difference between Coaching and Therapy?

Both therapy and coaching offer valuable support, but they serve different purposes depending on where you are and what you need.

Therapy

Best for: Healing, emotional support, and mental health care. You may benefit from therapy if you:

  • Want to process past experiences or emotional pain

  • Are feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or stuck

  • Need support with your mental health

  • Are looking for deeper insight into patterns and relationships

  • Would benefit from clinical expertise, diagnosis, or treatment

Therapy provides a safe, supportive space to explore your experiences, build insight, and work toward healing and stability.

Coaching

Best for: Growth, clarity, and forward momentum. Coaching may be a good fit if you:

  • Feel generally stable but want more out of life

  • Are ready to set and achieve specific goals

  • Want help with direction, accountability, or decision-making

  • Are focused on personal or professional growth

  • Are looking for structured, action-oriented support

Coaching is future-focused and designed to help you move forward with clarity, confidence, and intention.

Important Distinction

Coaching services are not psychotherapy and do not include diagnosis or treatment of mental health conditions. Coaching is not a substitute for therapy or medical care.

Licensed psychotherapy services are available only to residents of California and Nevada.

 Not Sure Which Is Right for You? Contact me to set up a free 15 min phone consultation.